If you feel your life is a constant struggle against invincible chaos, you've come to the right place! Welcome!
I want to offer you hope and slowly change your mindset from "I'm doomed" to "Hey, there's hope!" and finally to "Beware clutter, I can do it!"
Here are some unconventional advice I suggest you start with:
➋ Why the decluttering advice you've tried so far has failed you (NOTE: You didn't fail, the advice just wasn't right for you!)
And if you're ready to jump straight to the solution: